The Struggle is Real - CONCLUSION

Hey, there guys, this article is the continuation of one of my previous blog post - Read the first part here! So this article is where I dramatically end it and it is also one of my favorite topics to write about. So read on below while I hope this one makes you smile! 😇

1.EATING:-
If a girl doesn't eat a lot in public, it is not because she is dieting or weight conscious. A girl when alone with her food is a beast! She doesn't eat a lot in public or when around people because she is brought up in such way. The words "Naalu peru paatha enna solluvanga" (what will people think) is registered deep down in her soul sounding like her parents. Dieting is for patients and paithyams (stupids) who call themselves "fitness freaks" The poem is called "chubby cheeks" and not "chiseled cheekbones" so please keep your fitness theories to yourself.✌Women fasting to magically increase the lifespan of their husbands doesn't make sense anymore. Because back in those days I would also do anything to avoid sati, think about it if you lived in ancient times, your husband dies, someone is going to make you jump into a large fire pit and commit sati but not anymore right? 

2.LOOKS:-
Everyone cares about how they look. Girls are a bit more it is not because of jealousy, it is because we are rated as soon as people look at us. and by people, I mean the neighboring aunty's, next door maamis and people who see us after a long time. When people meet a girl after a long time they comment about the way she looks for 1 hour and then introduces themselves. They say things like:-
1.You have grown so much!
2.Your hair has become so thin!
3.You have lost so much weight! (said no one to me😜)
4.You have dark circles!. Although when people meet a boy after a long time, I hear them saying stuff like "cool beard, nice hairstyle, apdiye ajithkumar maari iruka" This is too much people!😒 So next time you see a girl covering everything while she drives her scooty, don't make jokes about it!

3.FUTURE:-
A girl's life begins only after her marriage - that's what the parents say. We are trained how to sit, talk, behave and work for our "future in-laws" even before we begin to speak. This kind of future talks happens 24 x 7 x 365 in every girl's house. Every mistake we make is somehow connected to our future in-laws. The criteria for an ideal girl is:-
1.She must know to sing
2. She must know to cook
3.She must know to do household chores. 
Those days are long gone and that's why Disney makes more movies like Moana, Frozen, and Brave instead of movies like Cinderella.✌

4. Neighbours:-
Neighbouring aunts took it way too seriously when God told: "Love thy neighbor" and thought it also meant "love thy neighbors kid" so they too can play their part in our upbringing. As though two parents were not enough to lecture a girl about her ways and manners there is always this aunty who you hate the most because she always has her nose in your business. What you study? where do you work? How many marks did you get on your test etc. They even complain if you don't wear any jewelry, I did my schooling in a convent school and hence have no habit of wearing jewelry. The point that I did not wear bangles to a temple was brought up by the above-mentioned aunty and my mother has been saying that I have masculine hands since then. When I asked my mom for a remedy so that my hands could become feminine, she told me "wear bangles". We all have one such "Pottu kudukara" character in our area, Don't let your mother be manipulated by them!

Next time when people tell you "what will the society think?" tell them that they belong to a society too. If Women join hands together they can really do wonders and nobody would care what the society would think anymore. That;s it from me this time, Hope you guys liked reading this post, please leave your reactions below👇 and Poitu varen da ambi!🏃

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